Trying new things or just doing something that’s not part of your normal routine is very fun. It will make you feel good to surprise your husband, and it’ll make him worship the ground you walk on. Here are some fun things to do once in a while.
Do a strip tease. Try not to laugh, but if you do, he won’t mind a bit. I personally cannot get through a strip tease without cracking up. And Conan still likes it. ; )
Initiate, and be the one in control through the entire experience.
On the flip side, tell him one night that you are his to do with whatever he wants and let him be in complete control. There is something incredibly erotic about this.
Wake him up in the night to oral sex or manual sex. Guys will almost always be willing to give up sleep for sex. And I’m pretty sure most of them would think they were still dreaming!
Write an erotic poem or story about the two of you (think Song of Solomon) then be sure to act it out. Once again, laughter is just fine! At some point I think you’ll stop laughing.
Bring him to climax on your breasts. In cruder terms this is a “pearl necklace” (remember ZZ Top, anyone?) or “snow on the mountains”. I would venture to guess that most guys would love this.
After the kids are in bed, come downstairs in nothing but a smile, then straighten up the room that he’s in. It goes without saying (I’m still going to say it), make sure the curtains and blinds are closed!!! What happens after that is up to you!
Position a mirror in just the right place so he can watch what’s happening in that mirror! We have a pier group style “thing” (I have such great vocab!) with mirrors for the headboard/nightstands of our bed. We got it in the 90’s and it’s slightly outdated as far as style goes, but it is solid oak and the nicest furniture we own, so I’m loath to get rid of it. But the biggest negative is we wouldn’t have those mirrors anymore. They are hot!
If there are any guys out there that would NOT like these things, feel free to let me know.